Create what you want

Create what you want

Paul had it. “This stuff about thinking good thoughts, driving by big houses and hoping for more just doesn’t work!” he cried out to his girlfriend Susan. Paul had read it all, well almost, from Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki, Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, to See You at the Top by Zig Ziglar. Other books by Anthony Robbins, John Maxwell, Jack Welch and a host of other authors filled his bookshelf. “I’m making these guys rich!”

Too many people are in Paul’s shoes. They’ve tried and tried and finally given up. It may have been two, five or ten years later but they’re frustrated and unmotivated now.

If you feel this way about self-motivation and striving for success then you’re not alone. Many, many people feel the same way. Keep reading… don’t give up on me yet.

LAW OF ATTRACTION

Brian Tracy wrote a profound message in one of his bestselling book Goals. That message was “You become what you think about, most of the time.” This is an interpretation one of the universal laws—The Law of Attraction. The LOA pulls towards you an undeniable creation of your thoughts. Your thinking sculpts what you become. Are you confident or ambivalent? Do you shape yourself into a motivated, energetic person or is it an angry, cynical person? This creative process is ultimately YOUR responsibility. Sending mixed signals into the universe is a mistake. You must be clear and concise on what you ask for. You can become that what you desire to be.

How do you do that?

It takes more than just reading about success. You have to think, ask, seek and finally become. Motivational books are filled with this almost cliché thought process of “thinking it to have it”. However, most of these books you read have at least one element of truth. That truth is you are placed into the right pattern to read and hear that way of thinking.

Just like food and water is necessary everyday for the body, so is filling your mind every single day with these types of attraction thoughts. You just have to have more refills to see the outcomes of this type of thinking. It’s so easy for one day to fall to the next day without any LOA thoughts—eventually days become weeks and weeks turn into months and so on. Finally, you shrug and say that this thinking is “useless” and “doesn’t work”. You must strive to maintain this belief. You must KNOW it.

ACTION

Surround yourself with encouragement and inspiration. Keep positive notes, reminders and emails that motivate you to continue these grand thoughts. Subscribe to blogs that share success stories and provide tips for creating “desired outcomes”. It’s easy to quit in the middle and be content on what you have.

COMPARING

This leads to a lot of your frustration. If you see someone who is more successful than you, and has half your ability, so what! You’re probably way ahead financially than most of the people you know. But this won’t matter to you because it’s in our blood to compare ourselves. Everything is relative. We are all unique.

We do not get to certain places in our lives at the same age. You may be 60 years old before you get your first business. Or you might be 20 years old by the time you get your MBA. Who cares!

ELIMINATE

Turn off the TV, and focus on your thoughts. Eliminate the distractions in your life that take you off course of your success goal. What is it you’re trying to attract? If you’re fighting for these thoughts with the TV then you’re not really focused. I use TV as one of the distracter examples, there are many others. You know what they are. There is a time and place for it. Just watch it on your time. Don’t keep it on in the background.

Those articles that tell you how HARD it is to succeed or “risky” businesses, that occasionally show up on Yahoo or MSN’s front page should NOT be read. Get out of the habit of reading negative articles. You can waste a lot of time and become de-motivated in a hurry. Remember the press is full of negativity. That’s what sells news. Don’t you become a “feeder” of negativity!

Hide or “defriend” your friends on Facebook or MySpace that are continuous complainers or post disparaging comments. You don’t need to see that. I know, I know… Just like moths love the light; we love the drama.

PATIENCE

Momentum is on your side. This concept is tried and true. It’s demonstrated by how simple, small raindrops transform into a flood with the power of moving building off of their steel foundations and the couple of dollars that can, over time, exponentially grow into over a million dollars.
If you can get other people, especially positive, successful minded people to help you in your drive for success then your progress is amplified.

Have your significant other post inspirational notes on your mirror; send you success email or links to stories of people that have “made” it. Maybe it’s not about a lot of money, or a great career. Maybe it’s about putting yourself in a position to help fund a mission trip or build a university.

PERSISTENCE

We’ve had the experience of reading a profound page or chapter in a particular book and feel energized deep within our core. Finally, with a sigh, we’ve read something that makes sense! Then two days later we flat-line… again!
You cannot give up. You have to keep reminding yourself of the amount of work it takes. Keep your mind fresh. Exercise, and focus on manifesting what you think about most of the time.

Keep asking, thanking and pursuing your goals.

You also have the knowledge that the journey of “getting there” is part of the fantastic experience.

Smile often!