How often do you find yourself at some social get together and after 10

YeaNo!

YeaNo!

or 20 minutes you’re trying to find some excuse to leave. The invite came three weeks ago and you waited until the last possible moment to get ready and eventually show up. You really didn’t know if you wanted to go in the first place. But you’re here now! What to do? What to do?

Your indecision and wondering puts you in a negative light. Seriously are you that important where when you grace people with your presence they get excited.

5 Steps to fight the ambivalence in your life:
1) Make sure you know your social calendar. If you know you have a free night then accept the invite and go!
2) When you make the commitment then GO! Make it something you are 100% committed to.
3) Invite others to go
4) Stay for at least an hour or more!
5) Make it a point to talk to as many people as you can. You can ask questions can’t you?

Stand up … make a commitment… don’t be so flaky!